Archives for October 2017

A lot of times we come at a point in our life where we stand thinking is this relationship worth it, does it have any future, can we/should we save this relationship, is it worth working on a relationship ? or we should just leave. Breaking up is a big decision at the same time inevitable or important in some scenarios. You need to be sure and realistic while making decision of keeping in or letting go. So that once you make the decision there no looking back and no regrets.

Saving a relationship definitely requires commitment and work from both partners. Reviving your love and rebuilding your relationship will take a lot of patience, clarity and perseverance. It’s also important to know the difference between relationship deficiencies and circumstantial problems. Circumstantial problems are inevitable, goofups are a part of life and they will happen. How to handle them is all what the game is about. Healthy relationships allow you to be the best version of yourself and to build a life that you couldn’t have alone, even if it’s not always roses. Here’s how to know if you’re going through a rough patch vs. if you’re in a bad relationship. Your gut probably already knows.

Willingness To Adjust Your Expectations Of Your Partner
Only if we are aware of expectations of our partner and ready to work around most of them, if not all of them. We will be doing our relationship a lot of favour. But the effort should be two way not that one partner is trying and other is stone cold. Learn what will make them happy and tell what makes you happy.

Knowing What You Need And Want From Your Relationship
Every relationship is different. We have all expectations and dreams regarding our relationships. Knowing what we actually want and being connected with our authentic dreams and feelings, will keep up in better chance of achieving them. Also look out for partners authentic self if they align with your needs and wants. Expecting someone to change after marriage seldom works. Its what people are from beginning what follows after. So choose your partner carefully.

You Are Deciding Together If Counseling Will Help

You Know When You’re Distancing Yourself Emotionally And Physically
Communication is the string that keeps us attached to our partners. See if you’ve begin to drift away from your partner, try to find out why is it happening whats the actual reason. And then look out for a creative solutions, reach out for help if you can’t think of anything. Family, friends, counselling, blog community anywhere you feel comfortable.

Both Partners Are Willing To Learn The Art Of Healthy Battle
Differentiate between constant complaining and effectively conveying concerns without making other person feel guilty or building up the tension. It’s not about suppressing negative feelings but expressing and communicating them in a healthy way. Think : whatever i am doing in a problem, is it really helping me or us in our lives or what else can be done to improve the situation. True love will never let you compromise on your standards right from the beginning of a relationship.

You Like Yourself In The Relationship
If you feel that your partner still brings out the best in you even during tough times you’ve got a relationship worth working on. If partner is taking away good moments from you and making you feel bad. Then that’s something really negative and needs to addressed.

Bad Times Still Involve Care, Trust, Respect, And Safety
You can fight without feeling disrespected, unloved, or threatened. You can go to your separate corners to cool down and trust the other person will be there when you come out. You’re willing to keep talking and keep trying, even when the conversation is hard, and so are they.

Acceptance And Taking Responsibility Of Your Mistakes
Things become easier for everyone when people in relationship acknowledge true source of problem and work towards improving, than pushing it under the carpet or blaming others. Acceptance is one commendable quality that can save a relationship from falling apart. If you have not being thinking through things. You can start now and see where you are wrong. This will put you in positive direction of saving your relationship.